The front cover of the book titled "Why Babies Suck" by Dr. James Thomas, featuring a blue background with yellow and white text, illustrations of baby shoes, a baby pacifier, and a baby onesie, with informational text on the back cover.

Why Babies Suck

Trust your gut. Build your team. Feed your baby with confidence.

Feeding shouldn't feel like failure. Sleep shouldn't require survival mode. If you’re questioning everything, you’re not alone—and you’re not broken.

Why Babies Suck exposes the real, hidden reasons families struggle with feeding and sleep. It replaces guilt with clarity and confusion with confidence. This book is not just information. It’s a lifeline for parents, a toolkit for providers, and a rallying cry for change.

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Dr. James Thomas is a pediatric dentist, founder, and changemaker behind health:latch, a pioneering clinic in Bellevue, Washington, that helps families understand and address oral and functional challenges with a focus approach on breathing wellness.

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Cover of a book titled 'Why Babies Suck' by Dr. James Thomas, featuring baby shoes, a tin cup, and baby clothing on a blue background.

You deserve answers.
You deserve a plan.
You deserve a team.

Join the movement. Pre-order the book that puts parents back at the center—where they’ve always belonged.

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Praise for Why Babies Suck

Reassuring and truly helpful  

“Why Babies Suck doesn’t push quick fixes. It walks you through options, questions to ask, and what support really looks like. The tone is calm and respectful, not alarmist. As an exhausted parent, that mattered more than anything and very informative too!! ”

Every parent should read this  

“As a father of three kids, I've experienced newborn chaos more than once. Sleepless nights, trying to feed your baby, and being afraid to ask for help. Why is this so hard? This book explains an important concept that I wish I had understood earlier.

Why Babies Suck isn't about blaming parents or pushing one feeding method over another. It's important to understand that when feeding your baby feels like a battle, it's usually not normal. It's not your fault. Author explains how even when weight charts look "fine," problems with feeding can be exhausting and frustrating for babies and parents.

What I liked most about the book is how it respects parents' instincts. As dads, we're often told to "support" our kids from the sidelines, but this book made it clear that having an intuitive understanding of our kids isn't just for mothers. If you're paying attention and something feels off, that matters.

I highly recommend it for moms, dads, and anyone who wants to actually listen to babies instead of ignoring their needs.”

Needed guide and encouragment  

“Dr Thomas is a consummate professional and child advocate. This culmination of his practice experience and expertise is a tremendous example of a person driven to improve the lives and health of children. I’ve seen firsthand his skill and understanding and witnessed the results. From his easy communication style to his positivity, this book is a needed guide and encouragement for new mothers.”

A fantastic book for parents and professionals! A must read!  

“This is a fantastic book! If you are a provider or a parent and you are looking for a practical framework navigating your first 30 days after birth…this is the book for you! Dr. Thomas truly is radically kind and you can see it throughout this book. He gives a holistic perspective of how to address oral dysfunction as a collaborative team! I appreciate the stories, the education, and the heart behind this book! His passion is evident and this would be an amazing resource for any parent searching for answers or validation! Loved this book! ”

Very essential for parents struggling with feeding!  

“This fantastic book gave me answers when everyone else told me feeding struggles were “normal.” In this amazing book Dr. James Thomas explains infant feeding issues clearly, compassionately, and without pushing surgery as the first solution. The book offers the book helped me understand tongue ties, body tension, and why my instincts mattered. After reading this book I felt empowered to ask better questions and build the right care team for my baby. This fantastic book is a must read and highly recommended if feeding feels wrong and you don’t know where to turn.”